Love & Sex

10 Things Men Don’t Understand About Women

Ordinary guys admit exactly what about us confuses them.

by Brenda Della Casa

Topics: dating, relationships, sex, love, marriage More

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“I don’t understand how women can be all up in arms about men looking at porn when they ogle and coo and aww themselves into orgasm over Wentworth Miller, George Clooney or Brad Pitt. Aren’t you doing the same thing we’re doing, only in the way that suits you better? We like them naked … you like them shirtless or in suits, bearing flowers.” —Lance, 48, New Canaan, CT

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Actually, to tell the truth, these are many of the things I don't understand about other women. *shrug* Then again, I'm a woman who enjoys beer, chicken wings, and playing video games over shopping or freaking out over some actor any day. Porn? Whatever - a guy I'm with can watch porn, I don't care - so long as he extends me the same courtesy. Heels? I dunno - why the heck do some women wear heels? They hurt.

Posted by ElfyOne Dec 04, 2010 10:59 am ET

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I think tha porn can actually make you bond with your man. It brings two people closer together. When you watch it together it gives you ideas.

Posted by hah01310 Jun 24, 2008 12:53 am ET

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Seriously, GUYS wrote all of this **** about WOMEN and we are the critical ones. I don't know about other women out there but my guy has absoluetly no need or looking at porn, I am satifction enough.

Posted by emily-gail May 09, 2008 3:05 pm ET

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There is a HUGE difference between watcing porn and going gaga over a movie star. Porn is all about sex. If I'm oggling George, he's actually acting and performing a asex act

Posted by deb2008 Apr 29, 2008 8:58 pm ET

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I left an abusive marriage last year. Now I'm married to a wonderful guy. Why should a woman have to stay in a marriage where the guy treats you like **** and beats on you? Come on women, take your lives back and get rid of the jerk!!!

Posted by HotmommaIA Apr 29, 2008 1:41 pm ET

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women like a bad boy because every women wants that Mr and Mrs smith moment when you are fighting one second then having fiery sex the next...its just hott

Posted by gbabymomma18 Apr 27, 2008 8:25 pm ET

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women are like that around other women most of the time because they feel threatened or they are trying to get their guy to say "yeah you look way better than her"

Posted by gbabymomma18 Apr 27, 2008 8:23 pm ET

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I dont look at other guys, My guy is the only one I need to make me happy and I dont like him looking at porn, because it just inquires girls to be ****s...I dont see why anyone would get that insecure about themselves

Posted by gbabymomma18 Apr 27, 2008 8:21 pm ET

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We wear heels, because they're cute. Really, it has nothing to do with height. It's all about how WE feel in them, so stop being so self absorbed (justkidding). And the whole, "What's with not liking sex?" question, you must have some sort of complex if you think that sex is bonding. We? We have sex for numerous reasons: kids, the fun, our mood at the moment, ect. But bonding? Wow... where did you get that from?

Posted by CantHearBeyondH... Apr 27, 2008 4:37 pm ET

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men are all crazy

Posted by jenny12lc Apr 26, 2008 5:32 am ET

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10 Things Men Don’t Understand About Women

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