Every week, a rotating group of relationship experts weigh on in one reader conundrum about love, sex, dating and all the confusing issues that come with them.

Laura Berman, LCSW, PhD, one of the leading sex and relationship experts in the country, is the director of the Berman Center in Chicago, a health-care facility dedicated to helping women repair their sex lives. Dr. Berman's expertise has been featured on "The Oprah Winfrey Show," the "Today" show, Fox News, CNN, the New York Times, USA Today, Elle and Ladies' Home Journal. For more info about Dr. Berman, visit drlauraberman.com
   
Sharon Fried Buchalter, PhD, is a marriage and family therapist as well as an advice columnist. Dr. Buchalter holds a master's in social work from New York University and a doctorate in counseling from Columbia University. She has received the highest accreditation as a board-certified diplomat-fellow in advanced child and adolescent psychology. She is also the author of "Children Are People Too: Unlocking the 8 Secrets to Family Happiness."
   
Comedian and dating expert Ian Coburn is the author of "God Is a Woman: Dating Disasters." He also writes two syndicated columns, "Lunch Is Not a Date" and "Lunch Is Not a Date ... The Q&A." Coburn's website, godisawoman.net, includes excerpts from his book and his most recent "Lunch Is Not a Date" column.
   
Lisa Daily is the author of "Stop Getting Dumped! All You Need to Know to Make Men Fall Madly in Love With You and Marry ‘The One' in 3 Years or Less." Daily appears every week on "Daytime," a syndicated morning TV talk show, and her dating and relationships column is seen by millions all over the world. She has been quoted in Glamour, Men's Health, the Christian Science Monitor, the Chicago Tribune and US Weekly.
   
William J. Doherty, PhD, is the director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota. He is the author of "Take Back Your Marriage." He cofounded The First Dance, a service that helps couples manage the people-stress of wedding planning. You can find out more about him at drbilldoherty.org.
   
Patti Feinstein, founder of America's Dating Coach, has been coaching singles for the past 15 years. She personally consults hundreds of clients throughout the nation, gives group seminars on dating, and acts as an advisor to various online dating sites.
   
Herb Goldberg, PhD, has written eight books about relationships, including "The Hazards of Being Male: Surviving the Myth of Masculine Privilege," "What Men Really Want" and "What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships and Love." He is a licensed clinical psychologist who practices in Los Angeles, as well as a professor emeritus of psychology at California State University, Los Angeles.
   
Susan Goldstein has practiced family law in California and Ohio for the past 28 years. She has also sat as a judge pro tem (that is, a temporary judge) in family law court in Los Angeles. As the coauthor of "The Smart Divorce: A Practical Guide to the 200 Things You Must Know," she has been interviewed on radio and TV stations throughout the country.
   
Cindy Lu is an actress whose television credits include "Desperate Housewives," "Six Feet Under," "The Bernie Mac Show," "My Wife and Kids," "House," "ER," "Frasier," "Friends" and "Seinfeld." Seven years ago she created and starred in a one-woman comedy show called "The Four Man Plan," which taught women how to date and rate multiple men. This fall, Random House is publishing a workbook version of the Four Man Plan.