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Are You a Flirt?

Are You a Flirt?

by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D.

Are you shameless when it comes to making it clear that you're interested in someone — or would you rather die than give a come-hither look to someone you don't know? Find out where you fall on the flirting scale.

You're chatting with the best-looking guy you've spied in months. When he's talking, you look directly into his baby blues — without once lowering your gaze.
1 of 12 questions

Option A

False

Option B

True

There's nothing like the presence of an attractive man to get you cracking jokes and telling your funniest stories.
2 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

You've just been introduced to your best friend's cousin. As you chat, you find yourself smiling a lot more than usual.
3 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

It's 1 a.m. and you're still at the bar with a handsome man you met several hours earlier. Although you're obsessing about how nice it would feel to touch (or be touched by) this guy, you keep your hands to yourself.
4 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

You're not afraid of saying sexually suggestive things to get a reaction from someone whom you're attracted to. A little bit of titillating talk never hurt anyone.
5 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

You're not the type to "turn on the charm." If the conversation and laughter aren't flowing between you and a potential love interest, too bad.
6 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

When getting ready for a girls' night out (read: scoping for prospects), you like to wear clothes that show off the best aspects of your figure.
7 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

You're minding your own business, sipping your morning latte, when you notice a Brad Pitt look-alike checking you out. You instantly begin carrying yourself differently (not in a slouchy way, but in a hey-look-at-me kinda way).
8 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

You've been known to let your leg brush against a fellow dinner guest's leg (if he's cute and available, that is).
9 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

Super-close dancing with an attractive stranger is simply not your thing. There will be no pressing of breasts, hips or butts while you're boogying on the dance floor, thank you.
10 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

Even when pressed, you steer clear of sharing stories about your passionate past.
11 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False

You've been called a tease by more than one man.
12 of 12 questions

Option A

True

Option B

False