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Are You an Emotional Cheater?

by Margot Leitman

Do you share your body with one man and your emotions with another? Do you remain cool, calm and collected with your guy, and unstable and overly emotional with your "good friend?" How close is too close?

You're having "one of those days" where you need to vent, so you:
1 of 7 questions

Option A

Wait to freak out at dinner with your beau. He’ll understand.

Option B

Cancel plans with your man so you can bitch to your best guy friend

Option C

Dine quietly with your sweetie. Afterward, you cry to another guy.

You're at the house of one of your close guy friends and it's getting late, but you're in the middle of a conversation on what's wrong with your relationship with your beau. You:
2 of 7 questions

Option A

Accept his offer to crash at his place, since it’s so late, and continue pouring your guts out till he tucks you in on the couch

Option B

Head out immediately and call your man for a “serious talk” about your issues

Option C

Continue discussing your feelings with your supportive friend, but still happily curl into bed with your boyfriend later that evening

You went solo to a party at a cute coworker's house. At the end of the night, you've had too much to drink to drive, so you:
3 of 7 questions

Option A

Stay for a little bit with the cute coworker, but then call your guy to get you

Option B

Call a cab and then drunk-dial your boyfriend to dish about the party

Option C

Stay with the cute coworker for as long it takes to sober up, conveniently missing your boyfriend’s call

While vacationing, your closest male friend calls with a "chick crisis." You:
4 of 7 questions

Option A

Speak with him for a brief moment and tell him you’ll help him when you get home

Option B

Screen the call and tell your guy it’s your mom on the phone. You call back late at night for a long convo to assure your buddy he’s too good for this girl.

Option C

Sneak off for a few minutes to console him while your guy watches TV alone

It's the night before a big workday and you can't sleep. Your man is out like a rock, so you:
5 of 7 questions

Option A

IM a male coworker who understands why you’re so stressed

Option B

Call your male coworker for support and lie to your guy about who’s on the line when your talking wakes him up

Option C

Turn on the TV loudly, hoping to wake him up so he can calm you down

Your ex-boyfriend is ...
6 of 7 questions

Option A

The confidante to whom it’s easiest to reveal your feelings

Option B

A pal you talk to from time to time

Option C

Your best friend who really gets you

If your mate asked if he could use your e-mail account to send something, you'd:
7 of 7 questions

Option A

Say “Fine … all yours, honey!”

Option B

Say yes but worry that he might misinterpret an e-mail or two in your in-box

Option C

Say no, because you know some of your e-mails would make you look guilty as sin