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Are You a Lazy Lover?

Are You a Lazy Lover?

by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D.

Do you think you're good in the sack — maybe even great? Find out whether you're proactive enough when it comes to keeping your relationship hot!

You two have a special evening planned. You:
1 of 7 questions

Option A

Shave your legs, freshen up with your favorite scented soap and matching fragrance, and slip into something sexy.

Option B

Intend to be clean, perfumed, sexy and seductive — but rarely pull it all off.

When you're feeling hot and bothered, you:
2 of 7 questions

Option A

Move in close, let your arm brush against your partner and wait for him to get the hint.

Option B

Wait until you two have slipped into bed to make a move.

Option C

Kiss him in the kitchen, pull him down on the sofa or otherwise let him know that you want him

Option D

What's hot and bothered? These days, you're way too busy and stressed to think about sex!

In the past month you've:
3 of 7 questions

Option A

Read up on great new sex ideas in books or magazines.

Option B

Looked for steamy movies or toys for the two of you to enjoy.

Option C

Had a sexual encounter at an unusual time of day.

Option D

All of the above.

When making love, you are:
4 of 7 questions

Option A

Happy to be on top, even though it's more work and your body is in full view.

Option B

Happiest to be on your back, where you can be a tad hidden and exert less energy.

During sex, you:
5 of 7 questions

Option A

Silently think, Touch me there! Kiss me there!

Option B

Reciprocate when he touches you.

Option C

Wait for him to tell you what he wants and then do it.

Option D

Wow him with your bold, sexy moves and make sure you both get satisfied.

When you perform oral sex, you:
6 of 7 questions

Option A

Give it two to three minutes, then move on to intercourse.

Option B

Keep going for a good five minutes.

Option C

Sometimes linger for 10 minutes — or as long as it takes to make him "happy."

Option D

Oral sex is not for me.

If your partner gets frisky in the wee hours of the night, you:
7 of 7 questions

Option A

Are pleasantly surprised and usually join right in.

Option B

Are flattered, but often too tired to oblige.

Option C

Cuddle and kiss him, then roll over and go back to sleep.

Option D

Are annoyed and tell him to quit it!