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By Michelle Buonfiglio Sat., Nov. 10, 2007 , 2:13 pm EST

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It's been so long since I've had a nice little binge on erotica or erotic romance, I'd almost forgotten: I love to read sex. Good God! When life gets too busy to simply grab up and gobble up a novel simply to feel the love, you know you've got your priorities totally whacked. Least that's what's happened to me.

So I cracked open our friend Jess Michaels/Jenna Petersen's "Everything Forbidden." (Nov. Avon Red). It's got everything I love in an historical erotic romance: poor virgin heroine who wants to give her sisters Seasons that will help them marry well; a virile, profligate, sexually dynamic marquess next door who's willing to trade paying for those Seasons for unlimited access to said poor virgin heroine's bod and burgeoning sensuality; opportunity for h/hn to get in over their heads emotionally while having very steamy sex.

The book works great, cause Michaels got game with the prose, and turns a nice, sexy phrase and sensual love scene that works for readers who want sexy that pushes the envelope just a tad. The best part is that the sensuality is celebrated by both hero and heroine - but I'll not dish why that's such a cool, sexy part of the story.

Bella Portia Da Costa sent me her recent Oct. Black Lace erotic release, "Hotbed," and, as always, it's a mélange of powerful sexual scenarios and highly charged erotic imagery. The novel, like the majority of her erotica and romantic erotica, teems with outrageous couplings - sexual and relational - that arouse by the very fact that they're so damn, well, beyond: beyond merely titillating, beyond the Average Jo-anne's fantasy, and, in some cases, deliciously beyond the pale.

That's the beauty of Portia Da Costa. She hurls dead sexy scenes and language at the reader which touches on deepest fantasy, but kicks it up so it's even better than what we could come up with on our own. And Da Costa's writing is awe-inspiring - especially when you think that she just hangs out here every day talking about her kitty and stuff. There ain't a writer of erotica or erotic romance who don't owe her props. You may not be ready for t160he intensity of Da Costa's novels - but buck up and give em a try -- yet when you place them up against just about everything else "erotic" being written, you see their superiority, as well as the impact they've had upon the genre/sub-genre.

This talk of erotica is getting me excited -- no pun -- about having a second annual "Hot Topic Week," in which we'll explore erotica, erotic romance, and what it all means (besides the obvious, at least in my relationship).

What do you like about erotica/erotic romance? Have you given it a try and not liked it? Why? Who are your fave authors of the really hot stuff?

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Very cool back-to-back-to-back series coming in late December from Lynsay Sands and Avon! The Argeneau three book series about two vamps and a vampette are being released Jan-March, with No Waiting. We'll have Argeneau series exclusives beginning December at "Romance: B(u)y the Book," plus a GuestBlog with Sands right here at LTR!

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Buona sera, Bellas, and hi, you naughty erotic romance authors, you! It's really lovely to read you chicks all talking about how healthy it is to read and fantasize about sex. It's empowering and enriching and oh, so good for the soul.____When we were getting ready to go to Dallas to shoot interviews for RBTB, I sent a box of romance and erom to the sr Producer for Lifetime, who was going to be running the shoots. When he got to Dallas, he'd just been finishing up Lacey Alexander's last novel. He was so funny, telling me his impressions. He said it was interesting, because the character kept saying, "oh,no, I'm not like *that,* I couldn't do something so outrageous," and then she did it. He's such a sweet, smart guy, and it was neat to see how he was "getting" how "average" women would relate to that "unleashed repression" in a heroine. He was smiling an awful lot when he was talking about the book, too. :)____One of the best things in my life, is getting to talk here, with you, about stuff like these books and how they relate to our expression of our sexualities within our relationships and lives. I never had anyone to talk to about this stuff before, and my life has grown immeasurably by the opportunity.
 
(@*#$@*()#$%&( This is what I get for being REALLY good this past 3-day weekend and keeping my nose to the grind. I get my proposal done and off to Deidre, then when I return to work, I see I've missed out on a TOTALLY HOT conversation! I am sooo ticked at myself for not playing on the net yesterday!! *sigh* __________I love erotic romance, but have mixed emotions about erotica, simply because I's GOT to have my HEA. I need some payoff when I invest time in characters. Not to mention that one of the reasons why I read romance is to escape from the humdrum of my daily existence. Fantasies are always welcome IMHO. I enjoy Holly, Ward, Sylvia Day to name just a few authors. I tend to read books not authors. ____________I think erotic romance/erotica give authors the ability to push the envelope, but it's got to be done well for me to enjoy the fantasy. For example, I've only found one menage story that I really liked, although I really enjoyed Shayla Black's excerpt for Decadent. It's on my TBB list. I loved the forbidden aspect of it. I can't tell you what I loved about the excerpt. Maybe just the fact that I thought it was so well written. It pulled me in, and that's what I want when I read sex. *I* want to be the heroine. I want to feel every pulsing beat, every rub of a hero's thumb, every flick of his tongue over my lips. When an author writes it so I feel that physical aspect...well, THAT's good erotica/erotic romance. ___Monica
 
Just picked up your addie, Leeann! Hope to get the books in the post to you tomorrow... :)
 
Cra.p I miss one day and I feel like I have missed a weeks worth of stuff between work and everything else :o) _______ yeah Portia You so made my day! That was me!! (LeeAnn doing happy dance since now she doesn’t have to wait till January to get Portia’s latest book) ______ Ok have to get back to catching up at work. Will have to check back in later ;o)
 
Bless you, Stacy : ) That's what I most enjoy about writing the super-erotic Lacey stuff. I know I'm never going to EXPERIENCE the wild stuff I write about, but it's entertaining to think about it ; ) I think sex is such a complex, compelling, fun, complicated, difficult, and wonderful thing that I love exploring its many components through both of my personas. And like you said, it's a hugely IMPORTANT thing in a person's life, and within a relationship.
 
Toni, that's why I love your books so much, because you're not encouraging women to go out and go crazy, but to think, and to enjoy the pleasure of a forbidden fantasy within the comfort of their own home, and mind. There are quite a few fantasies that I enjoy reading about, but would never consider them in real life. That's part of the excitement - imagining it instead of doing it. Because that way, the outcome is whatever you want it to be, and that's what makes it pleasurable. On the other hand, I think if a woman indulges in some of her favorite fantasies, it gives her the confidence to approach her partner and be a little more bold with that person, to explore that intimacy and grow closer. I think a lot of people underestimate physical intimacy, discounting it as not as important, but I disagree. I know it can build a stronger relationship, create a stronger bond, because there's a lot of trust involved. That doesn't mean that sex is the end-all, be-all, nor is it the same for everyone, but it should not be overlooked either. And women shouldn't be afraid to speak up and ask for what they want. No, demand it. We deserve it ;)
 
I love reading erotic romance and I love to write it. I think it can be empowering for women to realize they can fantasize and enjoy reading or writing about something they would never want to try in real life. I'm the most boring conventional person alive but in my books? I can express a different side of my personality. I have a theory that if what I write makes me hot, it should make readers hot too! Kate Pearce x
 
Hey MaryKate, all I have to say about your post is: yes, yes, yes to everything! Exactly! : )
 
Toni- I really like what you say about encouraging women to embrace what turns them on. Do I find menage scenes arousing and hot? You betcha. Do I want to have a menage? H*ll to the no! I don't. I've learned with erotic romance and erotica that it's totally fine for me to think that a scene is incredibly hot. It doesn't make me a sl.ut or a who.re, it makes me normal. It's something I wish more women would embrace and love about themselves. As women we're so programmed to "act like ladies" and think that any kind of sexual gratification is bad. I love the erotic romance and erotica allow us to explore our "darker" side, maybe that side that thinks that a spanking scene is hot, and more importantly: TO BE OK WITH IT. What you and other ER/E authors are doing is allowing women to embrace what turns them on, and explore it. It's a valuable thing, IMHO.
 
Stacy -- Thanks so much! I hope you enjoy EVERYTHING FORBIDDEN just as much as "Ancient Pleasures"!! :)