First-Date Mantras

Ace that first date with these helpful tips and affirming mantras.

First dates can be brutal! I don't know which is worse, holding back the expectations or the fears. On one hand, there's the hope that this will be the one and you can finally stop feeling like you have to prance like a show pony trying to lure in the prize stallion. Then, on the other hand, there are those worries of being stuck in a dull or scary first-date predicament. You know what I'm referring to — where you want to chew off your own arm in order to escape. However, there's one thing you should always count on at the end of either of these scenarios, and that's your own fabulousness!

Keep these insights in mind and recite these mantras — both before and after your rendezvous — and you'll always come out the winner, with or without a guy by your side!

—Astrosexologist Kiki T.

Aries (March 21–April 19)
You're a pro at trying anything new, always filled with invincible energy and enthusiasm — in other words, you're the perfect first date. Just remember, though: It takes two to make a real love connection, so give him a chance to impress you too.

Your mantra: "I'm a stylish, sexy and charismatic daredevil. Catch me if you can. I'm worth the chase."

Taurus (April 20–May 20)
Love is always on your mind — you're as romantic as they come, and you're patient with even the shyest of suitors. However, don't forget that you also have fantastic instincts, and if you're not feeling the magic, don't force it.

Your mantra: "I'm sensual, sensible and possess super stamina. One night with me would make any man weak in the knees."

Gemini (May 21–June 20)
Making lasting first impressions and keeping conversations going are your strengths. But remember, you don't have to always be "on." Knowing how to listen sometimes speaks volumes more on a date.

Your mantra: "I'm the smartest, sexiest, sassiest lady around, and I can charm the pants off anyone with my quick-witted humor and stellar looks."

Cancer (June 21–July 22)
Your intuition is spot-on, and you're not shy about expressing it. There's no denying how you feel and when you feel it. Just don't be too quick to judge every situation, as sometimes surprises need time to happen.

Your mantra: "I'm strong, yet sweet, and very caring to those who are worthy. I'm the kind of girl any man would be proud to take home to his mom."

Leo (July 23–August 22)
You're glamorous, exciting and passionate, but don't assume you're entitled to that praise right off the bat. Remember, a shot of modesty is a nice chaser to your mix. Let the compliments come with time.

Your mantra: "I rule the zodiac and can rule over any romantically charged situation. I can and will get who and what I desire."

Virgo (August 23–September 22)
You pride yourself on your high ideals and high IQ — and you should. You can analyze situations with record-breaking speed. Of course, not all things should be put under a microscope. Sometimes, taking life (or at least those first few dates) at face value has its merit too.

Your mantra: "I define perfection and deserve the same. I won't waste time on anyone who's not as fantastic as I am."

Libra (September 23–October 22)
Your impeccable taste shows in the gorgeous life you lead. Although when it comes to finding real love, you must go beyond the surface to see a person's real beauty. You don't want to miss out on an undiscovered gem.

Your mantra: "I'm ruled by Venus, and she has bestowed me with loveliness and elegance. I'd make any guy look hotter just by being near him."

Scorpio (October 23–November 21)
You tend to love or hate instantly. Sure, it'd be ideal if everyone were as decisive as you, but c'est la vie — they're not. Accept that sometimes being vulnerable early on is the price you have to pay for true love. Meaning? You may have made up your mind about him, but you may have to give him some time to do the same about you.

Your mantra: "I'm the zodiac sign of sex, intensity and passion. The love I give is unforgettable and transforming, the kind only meant for the brave of heart. I'm so worth it."

Sagittarius (November 22–December 21)
There's no one as positive and idealistic as you. So, no matter what happens in your life, you always land on your feet — looking hopefully toward the future. Of course, when it comes to first dates, stay in the moment, and don't rush things even if they're going splendidly.

Your mantra: "I'm fun personified. Adventure, optimism and spontaneity make me a triple threat who will dazzle all."

Capricorn (December 22–January 19)
When it comes to winning, you're a fierce competitor and as focused as they come. But love isn't a game; don't lose yourself playing. So forget the people-pleasing routine, as your opinion is as important as your date's. Your winning strategy? Being yourself.

Your mantra: "I'm successful, responsible and priceless. I'm an irresistible asset who will make any man a better man."

Aquarius (January 20–February 18)
You were born with an ability to be everyone's best friend, but that doesn't negate the sexy beast within you. Remember to crank up your charisma and flirtatiousness on that first date. And over the long term, understand that companionship doesn't always have to be so platonic.

Your mantra: "I'm the sign of innovation and eccentricity. Like the Hope Diamond, I'm a rare and exciting pleasure that any man should value."

Pisces (February 19–March 20)
Your incredible compassion is what makes you special. You were born with a superb ability to instantly understand others on an emotional level, but when it comes to cozying up with another, draw the line with those whose neediness or baggage is overwhelming. You want a partner, not a charity case.

Your mantra: "I'm the queen of the romantics and the wise old soul of the zodiac. I believe in fairy tales and will know my true prince from a frog."