When you ask, "How are you?" do you stop to actually listen to the reply, or are you too busy flitting from one thing to the next? Look people in the eye and sincerely inquire about their lives. Sure, you've got a full plate to tend to right now, but when you slow down just enough to be truly present with others, they're that much more likely to lend a hand when you need it. It's a win-win, Scorpio.