Is she friend or frienemy? It’s time to don your sorting cap and sift through the people in your life, placing them firmly in the give-and-take or takers-only camp. While it’s nice to have lots of potential guests when you throw a party, the people you really want around are those who come early to help set up and stay late to help you clean. Just because a queen-bee type arrives with her entourage doesn’t mean she’s really adding anything to the mix. Choose quality over quantity, even if it means your popularity takes a bit of a dive.