Help...air! Someone in your life is pressuring you, making you feel fenced in and ready to run. Don’t say yes just to get this person off of your back. Take some time to really think the offer through, or you could lock yourself into an arrangement that cramps your freewheeling style. It’s not totally black or white here, Sag. Negotiate the terms so you can still preserve your independence. That’s the only way this dynamic duo will thrive. If the other person sets hard limits that don’t jibe with you, take a pass.